Be silly. Be honest. Be kind. »
By coughlinlaura on May 14, 2012 in Reflection | 4 Comments
Tonight was the celebration of my 8th grade students’ promotion to high school. Every year I think I’ll never love another group like the ones I have at the time. It’s so hard to let them go, but as teachers it’s part of what we do. Here is speech I gave my students tonight:
You guys have a lot to celebrate this evening, but no celebration is ever complete without a little advice. As I was trying to figure out what little piece of life advice to share with you tonight I thought of all the fancy and complicated-sounding things I could say, but then I came across a quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson that kept it simple, but said it all at the same time. Just six little words. He said:
“Be silly. Be honest. Be kind.”
That’s it, three things that will take you far.
Be silly – I know most of you can do that one right now, but as you get older, it gets hard to remember to take time to have fun. High school can seem like serious business. I know most of you are nervous, and some of you are just plain scared, but if you remember to take time to be silly and have fun wherever you go, life will always be a little brighter.
Be honest – Being honest means taking responsibility for your actions – accepting praise for your great accomplishments and admitting when you inevitably make mistakes. No one is perfect. Everyone messes up now and then, but being honest when you do briefly go down the wrong path lets those around you know that you’re going to make a better choice next time.
Be kind – In the world we live in, it can sometimes seem like kindness is in short supply. Think of your favorite people – teachers, family members, friends – what do all of those favorite people have in common? Kindness. The people we like to be around are warm and caring, just like all of you. When you are faced with a choice of how to treat someone, choose kindness, and be someone else’s favorite person. The one that make’s their day a little better.
I have such hope for all for you. I’m so proud to have been a part of all of your lives. As you move beyond middle school and enter the world of young adults, I hope you will remember to do these three things every day: be silly, be honest, be kind.

















